[These are things which has struck me at some point in my life and for these things I have instances to support. But I am just 25 years old so some of these points might be wrong]
1. People who seem like harmless people have to be dealt carefully.. and some tigers are not really tigers.
2. Connect with the boys in the people.. thats the perfect way to establish connection
3. Weaknesses turn into strengths eventually. Mindpower is one reason. Strengths might turn into weaknesses eventually. The way the human mind is designed in one reason.
4.Each person lives / has to live for his own happiness first. Only if you have the life jacket on , you can save a second person.
5. Honesty is the best policy. But if you have to be NOT honest+pathetic , you have to work hard and get lucky.
6. Unlucky persons get infatuated with wrong girls and they will waste huge amounts of person-hours in life.
7.One has to think big,read big,talk big ,write big ,act big to get big.
8. A definite part of learning swimming is the theory part. You have to learn it part by part with intervals in between for the unconscious mind to work its part. Power of mind is one reason why it happens like this.
9. Its so uncool to care about something. If it goes wrong it should not cause an emotional scar.
10. If no one is watching also , showing off is cool.. one reason why I write my tall tales in blogs. Because every one has to bloat the balloon that he is.
11. A sin is a sin if you think its a sin and you sin. If you are sure , you are right. If you are doubtful you are wrong.
12. If there is a chance for a mistake, it WILL happen.
13. There is a vehicle around every corner every time you have your mind sloppy. Whenever you really want your horn to sound , it wont. Whenever you really want a bus to come on time it wont. This is because we notice it only at those times. Wwe take blessings for granted.
14. Friends are assets but always be prepared for assets turning into asses.
15. Now I am a blessed soul because I hate not a single soul in the world , I have forgiven all those who has trespassed against me.
16. A good turn of events might catch you off guard , hope is a big asset.
17. Be good to people but before that be selfish.
18. Dont say judgements about people but you have to estimate/anticipate in daily life. Dont ever write down a politically incorrect sentence. It will be used against you/It might automatically haunt you.
19. Attitude (what do they mean when they say the word) is a real asset. God alone can save people with attitude issues.
20. Migraines are painful but the after-migraine-highs are worth the pain. Only people with migranes can understand this.
21. Sometimes silence speaks better than words. Good conversationalists can be bad communicators and good communicators need not be conversationalists.
22. People deal with people everywhere. If you are good with people it is good.
23.You can watch the proceedings passively even while you are fielding in slip , people will not notice until you drop a catch.
24. You have to keep the head upright and be patient, you might be just one afternoon away from greatness. (Saurav Ganguly said this)
25. 'Common sense' - it is a misnomer .. Common sense is not so common
26. You may try and go on to win an argument - You might win the situation but you might lose a friend.
27. Dont spit venom at anyone.. One day you will get it back.. Jumping into the well is easy but getting back from there is difficult.
28. Humo(u ?)r sense is a blessing. If you have a humorous room mate you are lucky.
29. Dont be mediocre and arrogant at the same time - you will look ugly.
30. Uglier the bed the cozier it is.
31. On every food grain , a name is written , that person will eat that grain.
32. When in rome do what the romans do... Tamil nadu was so beautiful ..
33. If you are kind to a year , the year will be kind to you. By christmas time you will have the fruits reaped.
34. I am becoming a scrooge. After some years the boy inside me might die. And the man might read this blog and delete it out of shame , repenting of being so careless(carefree) and boyish.
35. Life is complete once I make 4 children and entice one of them implicitly:) into becoming a priest one a soldier one a sportsperson and marrying off one girl child and see her babies kunjikkaals
36. "Blessings are not just for the once who kneel" (- from U2 lyrics - 'city of blinding lights')
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The point 11 - about sins - it looked like i copied it from somehwere , to make sure its my original idea or was I reinventing the wheel i googled the string "a sin is a sin if" and got this result : http://www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_masturbation.html
ReplyDeleteAnd this is the very thing in my mind when I was writing that point :)
I am becoming a scrooge. After some years the boy inside me might die. And the man might read this blog and delete it out of shame , repenting of being so careless(carefree) and boyish......
ReplyDeleteI feel the same everytime I click the publish button!!
:) i had a personal diary - when i was in college - sometimes nowadays i read that - and i turn my head sideways to make sure no one is looking. Aand then i lock it in a darker cell of my cupboard than the place I kept it before..
ReplyDeleteBut we will not delete these writings . Because we respect ourselves - we respect the previous versions of ourselves also. I respect the boy school student standing in muddy shirt and pants in my AKJM school ground.. I respect that boy even when everytime he dreamed about the great heights he could achieve in future when he got high marks in an exam paper (When I heard Will Smith say this line in pursuit of happyness movie , something got stuck in between my heart and throat - because this was my line - only thing was that i hadnt articulated it and written it down anywhere)
More explanation required on the following:
ReplyDelete6. Unlucky persons get infatuated with wrong girls and they will waste huge amounts of person-hours in life.
I was having a headache on this saturday and sunday.. now its easing.. wuunderrful feeling... everyone is sleeping.. I can see the stars outside my window.. I am typing this from my onsite laptop [:P] .. My onsite might become offshore if I dont catch up with some sleep and do well in tomorrrows webex session.. Got clients feedback already for last session - 'doni has to be more proactive and has to ask more questions' .. I am falling down from where i was during the client interview - a hungry kid with attitude ..
ReplyDeleteI started writing personal notes when I was at school as well.. But my brother found that out and he was a big hater of it.. He told me it would make me live in the past and asked me to stop it! to which I obliged.. I want to know.. do u think u live in the past atleast some of the time coz of that diary??
ReplyDeletehehe :) dey you didnt find this out.. i have told panth about it 7 days before .. dont mind asking anyway..
ReplyDeletesitustion is ' she sees me as her brother , i dont see her as my sister'..
5 years younger to me.. hopeless case.. i have to grow up into that brother role from now on..
baaki njan avide varumbam paranju tharam.. net il ith ezhuthe vekkan naanamaa..
(" ammacheeee naanavaa")
" I LIVE IN THE PAST"
ReplyDeletethe caps lock is intentional..
I listen to some songs just to recreate the times i had.. cant explain it in words..
This Onsite offshore work is paying off - it is increasing my comment count :) .. But where is my other room mate in minneapolis ?? Aasshole should have seen my scrap notifying about blog update.. valla kambiyum kandond irikkuvaarikkum
Seriously i have to go to sleep now. (Gump wants to sleep)
ReplyDeleteEnter Adheesh..
ReplyDeleteI will read this again.. before I put a comment... I could put a comment for each point.. but we all are busy . aren't we? I'll have to read this again.
Did you think through all of these thoughts and jot it down? If so I bow down, I could never ever look back and think of stuff happened cos I don't remember a thing. Not a thing that happened last week.
ReplyDeleteI remember very few things from our hostel days thanks to my wonderful memory. I regret now not writing a blog or some sort of thing to keep all the memories.
We could have a huge discussion on the things you have written down :) Its that vast. I wouldn't mind, starting off, I didn't get the 2nd point.
Why specifically boys, or you meant to connect with younger people in general?
@ ameeth : thanks for visiting my blog dude!!
ReplyDelete(reply to adheesh will come next ;))
point 2: connect with boys - i meant 'connect with the younger side in people' .. when the external examiner is in a serious mood during our lab exam , if we played some mild innocent cherubic lovely obedient boy who wanted to pass the paper to continue his hungry career aspirations , the examiner would start helping out right... ?
But in electronics and communication department the internal examiners can never be tamed in anyway.. their boys have died inside them while they crammed btech mtech into their heads years ago
And for the memory part - I am blessed in the department.. if a moment has some emotional importance attached to it , it will stick inside my brain.. enne sammathikkanam