These notes will be updated and some might contradict some former ones

[These are things which has struck me at some point in my life and for these things I have instances to support. But I am just 25 years old so some of these points might be wrong]

1. People who seem like harmless people have to be dealt carefully.. and some tigers are not really tigers.

2. Connect with the boys in the people.. thats the perfect way to establish connection

3. Weaknesses turn into strengths eventually. Mindpower is one reason. Strengths might turn into weaknesses eventually. The way the human mind is designed in one reason.

4.Each person lives / has to live for his own happiness first. Only if you have the life jacket on , you can save a second person.

5. Honesty is the best policy. But if you have to be NOT honest+pathetic , you have to work hard and get lucky.

6. Unlucky persons get infatuated with wrong girls and they will waste huge amounts of person-hours in life.

7.One has to think big,read big,talk big ,write big ,act big to get big.

8. A definite part of learning swimming is the theory part. You have to learn it part by part with intervals in between for the unconscious mind to work its part. Power of mind is one reason why it happens like this.

9. Its so uncool to care about something. If it goes wrong it should not cause an emotional scar.

10. If no one is watching also , showing off is cool.. one reason why I write my tall tales in blogs. Because every one has to bloat the balloon that he is.

11. A sin is a sin if you think its a sin and you sin. If you are sure , you are right. If you are doubtful you are wrong.

12. If there is a chance for a mistake, it WILL happen.

13. There is a vehicle around every corner every time you have your mind sloppy. Whenever you really want your horn to sound , it wont. Whenever you really want a bus to come on time it wont. This is because we notice it only at those times. Wwe take blessings for granted.

14. Friends are assets but always be prepared for assets turning into asses.

15. Now I am a blessed soul because I hate not a single soul in the world , I have forgiven all those who has trespassed against me.

16. A good turn of events might catch you off guard , hope is a big asset.

17. Be good to people but before that be selfish.

18. Dont say judgements about people but you have to estimate/anticipate in daily life. Dont ever write down a politically incorrect sentence. It will be used against you/It might automatically haunt you.

19. Attitude (what do they mean when they say the word) is a real asset. God alone can save people with attitude issues.

20. Migraines are painful but the after-migraine-highs are worth the pain. Only people with migranes can understand this.

21. Sometimes silence speaks better than words. Good conversationalists can be bad communicators and good communicators need not be conversationalists.

22. People deal with people everywhere. If you are good with people it is good.

23.You can watch the proceedings passively even while you are fielding in slip , people will not notice until you drop a catch.

24. You have to keep the head upright and be patient, you might be just one afternoon away from greatness. (Saurav Ganguly said this)

25. 'Common sense' - it is a misnomer .. Common sense is not so common

26. You may try and go on to win an argument - You might win the situation but you might lose a friend.

27. Dont spit venom at anyone.. One day you will get it back.. Jumping into the well is easy but getting back from there is difficult.

28. Humo(u ?)r sense is a blessing. If you have a humorous room mate you are lucky.

29. Dont be mediocre and arrogant at the same time - you will look ugly.

30. Uglier the bed the cozier it is.

31. On every food grain , a name is written , that person will eat that grain.

32. When in rome do what the romans do... Tamil nadu was so beautiful ..

33. If you are kind to a year , the year will be kind to you. By christmas time you will have the fruits reaped.

34. I am becoming a scrooge. After some years the boy inside me might die. And the man might read this blog and delete it out of shame , repenting of being so careless(carefree) and boyish.

35. Life is complete once I make 4 children and entice one of them implicitly:) into becoming a priest one a soldier one a sportsperson and marrying off one girl child and see her babies kunjikkaals

36. "Blessings are not just for the once who kneel" (- from U2 lyrics - 'city of blinding lights')

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